| The God Who Mothers
Deuteronomy 32: 9 – 12a &
Luke 13: 34 – 35
May 13, 2007
Mother’s Day
I was on the staff at First Methodist
Church of San Diego for ten years. It was a large church with five
ordained ministers on staff. And being a large church we received
a new class of members every month. So, I was perusing the list
of new members when I came to a name I recognized as that of a professor
at Point Loma College. I knew the name because it was the same as
his fathers who was one of my professors when I attended the college
twenty years earlier. I was curious because I knew that generally
the teachers at that Nazarene college were members of the Nazarene
church; that sort of loyalty was expected. I knew that for him to
move his family to our more liberal Methodist church was done at
some risk to his standing at the college, even to his career.
So, I asked him about it and his
answer was simple and straight forward. He said, “One of the
pastors on staff here is a woman. She preaches and consecrates the
sacraments. I have a nine year old daughter and I want her to see
that.”
The Methodist church has been ordaining
women for a hundred years. Fully half of the people currently enrolled
in Methodist seminaries are women. In this conference, our bishop
is a woman.
Any church that excludes women
from pastoral roles immediately eliminates half of their talent
pool. The Roman Catholic are complaining about not having enough
priests; I know how to fix that. It was Pope John Paul II, everyone’s
favorite candidate for sainthood, who said that women couldn’t
be priests because they were “not sufficiently in the image
of Christ.” He said that at a time when the image of what
it meant to be Christ-like was being set by Mother Teresa.
So, on this day on which we honor
mother’s I wanted to honor the mother images of God in the
Bible, of which there are many, the fact that the Bible is a patriarchal
document, notwithstanding. It was Carl Jung, the psychologist who
first noted what he called “the psychological impoverishment
resulting from the lack of female images of God.” There are
in fact lots of them; they just get buried under all the masculine
emphasis in scripture and the prejudice of its interpreters. For
example, everyone knows that story in Genesis about Eve being made
from Adam’s rib, a sort of divine after thought. But often
overlooked is the story in the first chapter wherein it is stated
that God created both male and female in God’s image.
Look at our lessons for the morning:
first from the book of Deuteronomy, one of the most important books
of the Jewish scriptures, the last book of the Torah. God is pictured
as a mother eagle, fluffing up the nest, caring for and protecting
the young. If you have a computer you can go on line to an eagle
cam and watch that.
In the gospel, Jesus uses similar
imagery for himself; except he chooses a mother hen rather than
an eagle. In verse 18 of that same chapter in Deuteronomy, God identifies
God’s self as the one who gave them birth. Jesus told Nickademus
that he needed to be born again. It has become one of the favorite
metaphors for salvation in our time, especially among the evangelicals.
Some insist on identifying themselves as “born again Christians”
to differentiate themselves from the rest of us. I find it ironic
that those who prize that metaphor the most are also the ones who
would cringe at the notion that God is a mother as well as a father.
The last time I checked, giving birth was still a female function.
There is more. Hosea describes
God as being like a mother bear protecting her cubs, exploding the
notion that to be feminine is to be delicate or weak. In our common
vernacular we tend to ascribe the feminine gender to things of grace
and beauty – like ships. But just because they are sleek and
graceful doesn’t mean they aren’t powerful. Just ask
any one who ever served on an aircraft carrier or a destroyer. The
only male ships are tug boats and there only function is to push
the real ships away from the dock. The Bible acknowledges the strength
of women from the description of the woman in the last of the book
of proverbs to Mary Magdalene who, according to John, was the only
one with the courage to go to the tomb on Easter morning. Femininity
is tough. It has been observed that if men had to bear the babies
the population would be smaller. The name we lovingly apply to this
rock upon which we live is “Mother Earth.” She takes
lots of abuse from us humans and keeps on going all the while purifying
herself. Then there is Mother Nature, anything but demure –
just ask the folks in New Orleans or Greensburg, Kansas. The Germans
call there homeland the fatherland. East of there lies another country
which is Mother Russia. In the 1940s they engaged in a family feud
and the mother won. Polio was eradicated because of what was called
the Mothers’ March, and don’t forget Mothers Against
Drunk Driving, pushing more legislation through congress than most
lobby groups could imagine. In fact, Mother’s Day began as
an activist movement. Julia Ward Howe, who wrote “The Battle
Hymn of the Republic,” was a virulent peace advocate and issued
what she called a “Mother’s Day Proclamation”
urging women to fight for peace. In 1858 a preacher’s wife
named Anna Jarvis started “Mothers Work Clubs” and during
the Civil War, they spread out over battlefields tending to both
Union and Confederate soldiers. When the war was over, Jarvis called
for the establishment of a “Mother’s Day for Peace.”
In 1914, President Woodrow Wilson formally declared a special day
called “Mother’s Day” but by then it had lost
most of its activist roots. I Googled “Mother’s Day”
just for fun and got a web site all in pink with flowers and butterflies
and a poem that began, “M is for the many things she gave
me…” Mothers are tough. This would be a good time to
turn “Mother’s Day” back into what it originally
was, “Mother’s Day for Peace.”
There is so much more: Isaiah describes
God as being like a mother with her child. Jeremiah refers to God
as the Queen of Heaven – imagine that. If I were to refer
to God that way in a prayer, some of you would bristle, but it’s
in the Bible. In Proverbs, wisdom is personalized: Sophia in Greek.
Wisdom is described as a person to be sought after and wisdom is
decidedly feminine. And in ninth chapter of that book she serves
her subjects bread and wine, a communion of sorts with the feminine
side of God.
The theologian, Alfred Whitehead
suggests that since the Bible was produced in a patriarchal time,
the writers made allusion to the feminine characteristics of God
in subtle ways. Hear this quote, “They used images that lend
themselves to emphasis on the feminine without insisting upon it.
God is divine patience and tenderness, one who suffers with us,
one who keeps us safe: the comforter, the one who gives birth.”
By the way, in the Greek where nouns have gender, spirit is a feminine
word. Remember that the next time you receive a blessing in the
name of the Father, Son and the Holy Spirit.
So, why does all this matter? It’s
a lesson I learned from my daughter. There are lots of times when
she wants me and will say so, “Daddy, I want you.” They
are mostly times when she wants to play rough, pillow fight or tickle
tag. She wants me to go out to the yard, ride the bike or swing
her on the swing. But at night when she awakens from a bad dream,
she wants her mommy. There are times in life when you want more
from God than that which is offered by exclusive masculine images.
You want tenderness, comfort, and nurture that are the natural characteristics
of motherhood. You want a God to cradle you in her arms and say
everything is going to be okay and you believe it because she is
strong enough to make it so and she loves you with the ferocity
of a mother bear protecting her cubs or a mother eagle who bears
her children up on her powerful wings.
Some like to say that God is neither
male nor female. But, there is a theological axiom that the Creator
cannot be less than the created. So, it is more correct to say that
God is both male and female and infinitely more. Remember when you
call upon God that God is everything you want from the ideal Father
and the perfect Mother. If you have in your heart the image of what
the ideal father is like and the ideal mother, then you have a pretty
good notion of what God is like. An anonymous poet said it this
way:
“I know what mother’s
face is like, though it I cannot see: It’s like the music
of a bell, it’s like the way that roses smell, it’s
like the stories fairies tell, it’s all of these to me.
I know what father’s face
is like, I am sure I know it all: It’s like a whistle in the
air, it’s like a step upon the stair, it’s like his
arms that give much care, and never let me fall.
And so I know what God is like,
the God whom no one sees: he’s everything my mother means,
he’s like my very sweetest dreams, he’s everything my
father seems, but greater still than all of these.”
I like to characterize hymns as
love songs to God. “Joyful, joyful we adore Thee, God of glory,
Lord of love. Hearts unfold like flowers before Thee, opening to
the sun above.”
Given the emphasis of today sermon,
there are lots of love songs that could easily be directed to God.
I conclude with this example from Billy Joel: a song not to God
but about God.
“She’s got a way about
her. I don’t know what it is, but I know that I can’t
live without her.
She’s got a way of pleasing.
I don’t know what it is, but there doesn’t have to be
a reason, anyway.
She’s got a smile that heals
me. I don’t know why it is, but I have to laugh when she reveals
me.
She’s got a way of talking.
I don’t know why it is, but it lifts me up when we go walking,
anywhere.
She’s got a way of showing
how I make her feel. And I find the strength to keep on going.
She’s got a light around
her, and a million dreams of love surround her, everywhere.
She comes to me when I’m
feeling down, inspires me without a sound; she touches me and I
get turned around.
She’s got a smile that heals
me. I don’t know why it is, but I have to laugh when she reveals
me.
She’s got a way about
her. I don’t know what it is, but I know that I can’t
live without her, anyway.
As always you can get a
DVD of this sermon. Contact the church office.
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